Welcome to Penny Haynes Life Patterns Ministry

Counseling Membership Site

Your healing starts here with counseling, courses, webinars, forums and groups.


This series of ebooks moves you from living by your emotions to surrendered to God.

Courses To Help You Heal

Learn at your own pace from courses on depression, codependency, hopelessness and more. New courses are added monthly.

I know first hand how it feels to be lost in depression for years, trapped in my house with panic attacks, tormented by memories of past traumas, and prisoner of an eating disorder. I know what it is like to have a horrible marriage, to feel unloved and unwanted, and the shame of turning to another man for comfort. I know what it is like to want to please and live for God, but be unable to fulfill God’s call on my life because of hidden sin, guilt and shame. But I also know what it is like to be free. Now I help Christian women gain self-control over their emotions and actions so they can fulfill God’s purpose for their lives. Let me share my story with you.

It was God’s providence that guided me to ”happen” to find Penny. During our first session, Penny showed me, and I began to realize, that God made me the way I am for a purpose and that I wasn’t this broken and defective failure I believed I was. I had allowed the enemy to steal many things and began believing all his lies. After that first session, I had a hope that I hadn’t felt in a long time. Penny has truly been a Godsend. JP

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You're obviously stuck where you are, but your healing and joy are just a few clicks away - if you will just move forward and do something different.  You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by going through the site.

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Yes, you ARE worth getting well

This is going to be the hardest part.  You will have to make a decision whether or not you are worth being healed.  You have believed so many devaluing things about yourself by now, you have figured, "Why bother?  I'm not worth it."  But you are.  The people that depend upon you need you healed and whole.  You have a right to enjoy life, to smile, to feel joy and contentment and peace.  But you are the only one who can do this for you - no one else.  So, are you worth it?

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Be honest, if you could have fixed yourself by now, you would have.   But you haven't.  You are too deep into it at this moment.  You can't see things clearly and don't know what to do.  But I do.

  • Receive FOUR (4) hours (1 hour per week) of large group counseling a month for less than $12.50 per week.
  • Access to all of my courses (at least one course added per month). 
  • Access to me online via forums, so whenever you are hurting, you can contact me. 
  • Add individual counseling sessions as needed.

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99% of clients experience a huge reduction in stress in their first session!

After that first session, I had a hope that I hadn’t felt in a long time. JP


Instead of depression and anxiety, experience RIGHTEOUSNESS, PEACE & JOY in the Holy Spirit (Romans 14:17)

She assessed my temperament right away and I have already realized why I have the patterns I do. CM


Find out where your compulsive behavior began, and heal the trauma at the source. (You can’t heal a wound by saying it’s not there! Jeremiah 6:14)

My anxiety level dramatically dropped after one session. SH


Unmet needs cause stress. Find out what your specific God-given needs are and how to meet them. (Phil 4:12)

I began to realize, that God made me the way I am for a purpose and that I wasn’t this broken and defective failure I believed I was. JP


You were uniquely designed by God for a specific purpose. Find out more about how He made YOU. (Psalm 139:13)

About Penny Haynes, Licensed Pastoral Counselor


Life Patterns MinistryLicensed Pastoral Counselor through the National Christian Counselors Association.

Co-Founder of RPM Ministries, Inc., a 501(c)3 that is the parent of:

Ministry House, which is a church for people in recovery from hurts, habits and hang-ups including issues like depression, anger, eating disorders, substance abuse, codependency, etc.  I co-pastor the church with my husband, Ronnie, sharing the responsibilities of teaching, preaching and leading.  I also lead Praise & Worship.

Celebrate Recovery is a Christian 12-Step program based on the Beatitudes, which is Ministry House’s main ministry.  We have large group and share group meetings, and offer 9 month men’s and women’s Step Study groups as well.

– Good Shepherd Recovery House  is a 9 – 12 month men’s regeneration program for substance abuse in Jasper, GA opened by RPM Ministries.  I serve as administrator and a counselor, and my husband is the Executive Director.

Koinonia Communities is my non-profit dedicated to providing emergency, temporary and permanent housing, ministry and training for the homeless. This is my dream, my long term goal. Our hope is that Koinonia will join Good Shepherd on their 36 acres in 2019.

I am a founding member of Bethesda Community Clinic, a low-cost Christ-centered non-profit medical clinic in Cherokee County, GA for the uninsured and low income.

I served on staff as Media Director for World Harvest Church in Ball Ground, GA (the church is no longer active).  I directed, edited and produced the church’s television show.  I also served in various leadership and pastoral positions. I was licensed as a minister there in the late 1990’s.  World Harvest Church References

My husband and I also authored the 13 week discipleship curriculum, Firm Foundation.

Education & Certification

Furman University – Bachelor of Arts in Religion

Teamwork Bible College – Bible College Graduate

NCCA (National Christian Counselors Association) – Licensed Pastoral Counselor training and accreditation

Dr. John Mauldin – Life Patterns Coach Certification training

Team Jesus Ministries – Renewed Ministerial License in 2012.